Thursday, February 25, 2010

One of a Kind


So, I was fortunate to attend the Life Through Art Foundation Red Party last Saturday night (February 20) at the Madame Tussaud's Wax Museum in Hollywood. Wow! What a party. From the red carpet, to celebs, to yummy free cocktails . . . it was not to be missed.

I was also fortunate enough to bid on (and win) some really cool items in the silent auction. And while the guitar signed by Pat Smear of the Foo Fighters (and Nirvana, and The Germs), which came from his personal collection is exceptionally cool . . . there were two more items that I feel really lucky to have "won."

Allison Heutsche is a jewelry designer (check out her website at www.artasan.com), and she had generously donated two pieces of jewelry: a necklace and a bracelet. Both handcrafted, both one-of-a-kind pieces.

That was enough to make me feel "special" . . . until I found out the story behind the bracelet.

I had emailed Allison, just to let her know that I now had her "art" in my possession, and also to thank her for donating such beautiful and amazing pieces. She wrote back almost immediately, and after a few more exchanges I found out the heartfelt story and event that prompted her to create the bracelet.

See, Allison's dear friend Alma was killed in a car accident. And by chance, Garrison Keillor, famed author and performer, happened to be standing on a bridge in Santa Monica, witnessing the aftermath. He was so moved, so touched by the event that he wrote an article about it. From that article, and from the bridge on which he stood, the idea for the bracelet was born. It is truly a one-of-a-kind, and I am so unbelievably honored and blessed to have it.

See below for the article, and above for a picture of the piece . . . both titled "A New Appreciation of Life."

A New Appreciation of Life
By Garrison Keillor

I was in Santa Monica for a day last week, sampling baked figs at the farmers’ market on the Third Street promenade, a sweet sunny day that makes an old Midwesterner like me a little nervous. We fear seduction. Some days in California are so tender and delicious that a person could abandon all commitments and wind up living in blissful stupor in some cult devoted to the worship of the sky.

I have work to do. I haul it around in a black case the size of an anvil and when an hour or two opens up, in an airport or hotel, I dig in. I don’t lie on beaches, looking up at the sky. It’s blue in Santa Monica. You don’t have to look at it for long to figure that out.

My hotel was on the beach, so I headed back that way, crossing the Pacific Coast Highway on a pedestrian bridge. And there, 50 yards south of me, police cars and flashing blue lights. The northbound lanes of the PCH had been closed. A car sat in the middle lane, its rear end smashed in brutally. And south of it, a yellow tarp spread on the pavement. A body lay beneath it.

Then eight cops and emergency medical technicians lined up on either side of it, like pallbearers, and then they spread out a long white sheet which they held as a screen while the yellow tarp was pulled away and a police photographer took pictures with an enormous camera. A man in a dark suit bent over the body, studying it closely. The eight men stood quietly, hardly moving, and they looked straight at each other. They did not look at the body. It was a still-life scene, except for the flashing lights and the southbound traffic passing: eight men standing at attention, guarding a body, and two men moving with great delicacy around it, gathering evidence.

A blue sky over Santa Monica and on the beach, people lay on towels, sunning themselves. A few swimmers in the surf. Rollerbladers out on the sidewalk and joggers, grunting about the presidential campaign. A day in which you’ve witnessed death takes on an aura of fragile loveliness. You breathe the salt air and you savor this on behalf of the dead and note the pencil-line delicacy of the long cane poles of the Japanese fishermen on the pier, the two triangles of white sail taut with wind on the distant boat, the skinny boy in blue trunks swinging high on the flying rings on the beach and soaring to the next set of rings. You see the portly man wade into the water and shudder as the water touches his testes and you feel it, the shudder of mortality. And visions of the fallen one stay with you.

A few hours later, online, news that the victim was a woman, 44, whose car had been rear-ended, that she had gotten out of her car and stood waiting for help to arrive and was struck and killed by a third vehicle. Her name was Alma and she was from Los Angeles.

The day goes on and though you don’t keep in mind the sight of the pallbearers around the body, the death attends you wherever you go. You imagine the woman’s plan for her day, maybe lunch in Malibu and a meeting at her kids’ school and supper and a movie afterward, a simple day in sunny L.A., and you abandon your own plan to work and instead you walk around looking at the shining world on behalf of Alma who died on the highway.

You buy a mango/papaya smoothie and a cafe mocha and in the face of death they are spectacular. You sit at a table in the brilliant sunshine, the light splashing off the stone facades and aluminum moldings. She was standing by her car waiting for help to arrive when she was struck by another vehicle and killed, and 30 minutes later men were standing at attention around her. It would be intolerable not to know the name of the woman. Attention must be paid. She trails alongside you as you walk into a bookstore full of art books and you pick up one with pictures of California beach houses, all whites and yellows and pale blues, sun-drenched rooms, bowls of flowers, cotton curtains, and the sea beyond. A beautiful world, Alma, and every day is a gift. I’m sorry you had to leave early.

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Garrison Keillor is a radio host and author.



Friday, November 27, 2009

Post-Thanksgiving Thanks

So, yesterday was Thanksgiving, for those of you who don't live on planet Earth. It was my third Thanksgiving in L.A., and I had planned on spending it the way I've spent the last two . . . with me, myself and I.

That was the plan.

I was totally OK with it, too. Don't get me wrong. I wasn't planning on holding some sort of pity-party for myself, complete with party hats and favors. No. I was actually looking forward to a day of quiet. No one needing me. No one calling me. No one emailing me asking me for something. It was going to be grand.

It started out that way. I slept in . . . OK wait, side note. When I say that I'm going to "sleep in" it doesn't mean that I sleep until 9:00 or 10:00, people. Sleeping in for me means 11:30, at the very earliest. So if you know that I'm going to be spending the morning, "sleeping in" please do not call or text - or if you do, don't expect me to respond.

OK. Moving on. I slept in, went for a fabulous run at the Balboa trail, did some cleaning, a little laundry. And then I sat. And suddenly I didn't want to spend the day all by my lonesome.

So I called up good friend, Sandra. She had invited me to come over for a visit. No big party, just her and Jordan, sans Beka. "Sure!" she said, "Come on over." So I did. We shared white wine spritzers (yes, Sandra is bringing them back), a little gossip, and some laughs.

Next up? The party house. I arrived a little after 8:00, and when I got there the group was playing Catch Phrase. I joined in, and although I didn't do much to help team #2, it was a grand time. Then on to Apples-to-Apples, another game that I had never played before. Again, a grand time was had by all, or most anyway. Knowing that I had to work in the morning, I said my goodbyes rather early, and headed home to bed.

The point I'm trying to make here is that of all the things that I could be thankful for, I am the most thankful for yesterday. For friends, who have become my family. For being able to feel just a bit more comfortable in my skin, my L.A. skin. For it being OK to reach out and not feel like I'm asking too much, or needing too much. Some of you who will read this know what that means, and how much that means to me.

I cannot convey enough, so I'll just say, "Thanks."

Friday, September 11, 2009

Remembering

It's an important day today. September 11. It's comforting in a way that I don't need to remind any American what happened on this day eight (8) years ago today. And a comfort that most Americans will hold this day in remembrance.

I don't doubt that almost everyone remembers where they were, what they were doing, what was going on at the time that they heard about the Twin Towers. I know that I will forever have that imprinted on my brain, just as many have the day the Challenger blew up, or the day John Lennon was shot forever imprinted on their brains. Not that I'm comparing Septemeber 11 to those days, but the reverberating shock does linger.

I was making ad sales calls. I had just left one call, jumped into my car and there it was on the radio . . . a plane had it one of the towers. I thought it was a joke at first - I really did. I actually couldn't believe what I was hearing. My next stop was Lowry State Bank. I popped into Bob's office, and shared what I had heard. "Apparently a plane hit one of the Twin Towers." He couldn't believe it.

It wasn't until I got to Starbuck, to the Starbuck Times, that I had reinforcement. They had heard. It was true. We all went next door to Tank's TV and Appliance, and proceeded to watch the entire thing on the 52-inch TV.

I was numb. I think we all were. How could this happen? What was going to happen? And then, the news of the hijacked planes. It was all so surreal.

The funny thing is, I don't remember what else happened that day, if anything significant. I can't imagine that a whole lot of work got done. But I will forever remember the exact place I was - in my red 1999 Pontiac Grand Am, when I heard the news for the first time.

To all the families of all those who were lost that day, and all the families of all those who have lost their lives since that day fighting for what many people believe to be "retaliation" . . . I will hold you in my heart. Forever.

Friday, August 14, 2009

Boomer, Part Deux

I wrote a little bit about my best bud, Boomer, last week. It was the one-year anniversary of his death at the time, and I was cherishing my memories of him.

But, there's so much more that I can say about this "more-than-a-cat."

Today, my nephew Colin, was telling someone about Boomer. How he was the "best cat ever." Joe would consistently bring Colin Little Debbie Snack Cakes and tell him that Boomer made them. He also told Colin that Boomer "put the power" in his truck. Colin is five years old, so maybe he knows and maybe he doesn't, but he was so proud telling Jess of Boomer's accomplishments. And he was concerned about the snack cakes. He said that no one can make those cakes anymore because Joe didn't get the recipe from Boomer before he passed.

When Joe and I picked Boomer up for the first time, he was so tiny! Like I said before, he had been found abandoned by a dumpster (in Starbuck, I believe). I had seen an advertisement for him in the Canary I believe. We went one night to check him out, and he was the one. Joe and I had driven separately, so Boomer rode with Joe. We had brought a box to tote him in (I think it was a potato chip box, actually!). But he soon crawled out of that, and was freely roaming Joe's pickup. I think Joe was probably a little freaked out that a tiny little kitten was climbing all over his relatively new pickup! But we all made it home safely, and Boomer adapted to his new living space quickly.

He wasn't an angel, that's for sure. My mom and dad's cat Muffie (or Muffy, depending on who spells it) always seemed to be on the short end of the love at our house. She was always getting picked on - and Boomer was no exception! Once he was a little bigger, he had no problem torturing her.

One year Joe and I bought him a cat sweater as a joke. We thought we would put him in it and take a picture, just for a good laugh (and memory). But Boo was smarter than us. Somehow, the sweater ended up in the garbage and was burned. I know in my heart to this day, that he was somehow responsible!

He was not only a cat, and I will continue to cherish his memory for many years to come.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Boomer, You Are Still Loved

It's kind of a sad day today. One year ago, to this very day, I lost a very dear friend of mine. His name was Boomer, and he had been with me for 13+ years. He was my cat.

But he was also much more.

You might be thinking . . . it's only a cat. But when you spend that many years with someone (or something), you become rather attached.

Joe and I still talk about him to this day. All the things he used to do. His little quirks, his way of winning us over, not matter how naughty he had been. The way he used to wake us up in the middle of the night with his wet nose in an ear.

He was a spoiled cat, that's for sure. When it was just us, he used to jump up on the counter or the table. And we'd let him. We bought him the best food. When it came to Boomer, there was no expense spared.

Some things about him . . . he hated to ride in the car. He rarely meowed (In fact, when we first got him as a kitten, he barely meowed at all. My mom said it was because he wore out his meow crying for his mom - he was found abandoned by a dumpster). But when he had to ride in the car (either to the vet, or if we had to take him to my mom's when we went on vacation) he cried the whole way.

Like I said above, he was abandoned by a dumpster. We got him from the Pope County Humane Society when he was just a kitten. He was actually my birthday present from Joe. I was still in high school, and my mom and dad didn't know that he was coming to live with us. My dad was asleep when we brought him home, and the next day I was sitting on the couch with Boomer by my side. My dad walked through the family room - and stopped. "What is that?" he said. Luckily, everyone fell in love with him immediately, and he was a welcome addition to the family.

Joe was not a cat person before Boomer. In fact, I think he wasn't too willing to "give" him to me for my birthday. But just like everyone else, Joe fell in love with Boomer. And after 13+ years, he became the third point to our family triangle.

At the end, he was really sick. He had been having some kidney and digestive issues for some time. We'd take him to the vet (which, he hated of course), but he never really seemed to get better. Age has a lot to do with his demise, but health problems contributed.

Finally, it got to the point where nothing could be done. I remember when I got the call from Joe. I was in class, but stepped out because I knew it couldn't be good news. Joe told me what the vet had said - that it was probably best to put him to sleep. He would take him into the vet the following day (a Friday), but it was most likely that it would be time to take that step.

The next day, we made the decision. I was so torn. I wished we could wait until I could be there to say goodbye, but that didn't seem fair to Boo. Joe had his mom take Boomer into the vet because he wanted to say goodbye to him at the house.

It was time, and Boo knew it. He hated to go into the cat carrier - seriously, we had to stuff him in there kicking and screaming (probably because he knew he would be going in the car), but this time, he walked right in. By himself.

That makes me cry every time I think it about it.

So, on 8/8/08, Boomer left us. He really knew how to go out in style - all 8's like that.

I could say so much more, but it's still a bit too much all at once. Regardless, I wanted to share Boomer's story with you - on this, his one-year mark of being gone.

Boomer, you are still loved.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

If I had a hammer . . .

So, I'm in this play - Tracing Sonny - which opens next Friday. It's a great play, by the way, and you should definitely come. But anyway . . . there's a set that has to be built, and today was another day to build. There was a "build" last weekend as well, which I helped out at on Saturday. I used a Skill Saw (or is it Skil Saw?) and a hammer. It was glorious. Today I didn't get to use the saw, but I did paint, used a hammer - and a drill. And I acted as "dead weight" (essentially sitting on pieces of wood that were being cut).

I had forgotten how much I really enjoy "manual labor." It was never that much fun growing up, with chores and baling hay, and picking rocks . . . especially in 90+ degree heat. But it offered a sense of accomplishment - one that just isn't the same with the day job, or even the acting thing. I got my hands dirty, didn't care how I looked as a sweaty, paint-stained mess, and built something.

I had to leave a bit early (plans to attend a play with good friend, Trista), but I was proud of the work I had done. And somehow it made me somewhat more invested in my character. Not only did I help build "little limbo" that Nanette calls home, but I found a "home" for her.

You can see this beautiful set, at the Avery Schrieber Theatre in North Hollywood. 8:00 p.m. on Friday and Saturday; 2:00 p.m. on Sundays.

Friday, February 13, 2009

Rain, Rain, Go AWAY!

Ok, seriously. Is it really supposed to rain this much in L.A.? I don't understand. Where did all the sunshine and warmth go? Instead we are experiencing rainy day after rainy day, complete with flooded streets and backed-up freeways. And I've had enough. If I wanted cold and rain and miserable weather, I would have stayed in Minnesota.

I'm really starting to get depressed.